Danielle uses the RLT model for couples' and other dyad coaching and incorporates RLT into individual coaching sessions as well.
What is RLT?
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) is a powerful, direct approach to relationship coaching developed by New York Times Best Selling Author, Speaker, and Educator, Terry Real, based upon his 40+ years of working as a family and couples therapist. RLT is applicable for individuals, romantic couples, and other "couples" (e.g., siblings, colleagues, business partners). It is a framework that helps clients identify unhealthy patterns, build deeper emotional intimacy, and develop effective communication and relational skills. Unlike traditional therapy, RLT works quickly and pragmatically to shift mindsets and behaviors, fostering accountability and growth.
More on RLT & Terry Real:
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The New York Times | By Maggie Jones
A Couples’ Counselor Takes On ‘Normal Marital Hatred’ (Published 2022)
In his new book, ‘Us’, Terrence Real explores how ‘enlightened self interest’ could save your relationship.
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The New York Times | By Daniel Oppenheimer
How I Learned That the Problem in My Marriage Was Me
It took a superstar couples therapist to help me see beyond my anger.
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The New York Times | By Jancee Dunn
Fighting With Your Partner? Use These 4 Phrases. (Published 2023)
Brevity is key, experts say.
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VOGUE | By Jancee Dunn
How Gwyneth Paltrow’s Favorite Relationship Therapist Saved My Marriage (Published 2022)
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More Arhttps://www.nytimes.com/2023/07/28/well/mind/make-up-fight-relationships.html
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/02/04/magazine/therapy-marriage-couples-counseling.html
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